Kenapa bila kita melalui fasa-fasa susah dlm hidup, semua movie, lagu di radio dan TV yg kta tgk dan dgr ada kena mengena dgn kita?
Hari tu aku layan "How I Met Your Mother" sbb xde keje. Bg yg tau TV series tu, mesti mcm, "Oooohhh...". Tp bg yg xtau tu, series ni is everything about kisah cinta antara 5 org kawan. Yg bestnya, geng dorg ni, consist of 1 couple suami istri which is Lily & Marshall. Satu lg couple ni, Robin & Barney, & sorg single, Ted. Tp kan, Robin ni penah bercinta dgn Ted, kira ex la, slma setahun. After their break up, they manage to be the best of friends again. Dorg 5 org ni mmg mcm family.
Tiba kt satu episode ni, psl Robin & Barney is the sweetest couple ever. Tp tiba2 masing2 berubah perangai. Marshall jd makin gemuk n not being himself, & Robin plak nmpk smkin tua, x bermaya, & irritated dgn setiap perktaan yg klua dr mulut Barney. So kwn2 dorg yg lain ni suspect something so dorg pg siasat.Rupa-rupanya dua org ni x bahagia bersama, tp are too stubborn or afraid to break up. So kwn dorg lancarkan misi nk break them apart dgn sruh dorg asyk gaduh. Last2 tu, dh abis smua cara dorg buat, dorg tgk dr jauh je (spying la), Robin n Barney ni pg tpt lain n started kissing. And dorg pun t
erkejut la. Misi dorg gagal. Maksudnya, whatever they do to them, nothing is gonna work bcuz they are in love. So dorg lupakan misi ni. The next day, dorg jumpa dgn Robin, muka fresh bermekap n ceria. Robin ckp, "I broke up with Barney." Kwn2 dorg terkejut. So Robin crita balik apa jd:
That nite (the nite kwn dorg lancarkan misi), Robin &
Barney saw the things that makes them mad n usually dorg akan gaduh sbb perkara2 kecik2 tu. Pastu dorg cam tetiba tired n ternampak diri dorg kt cermin. Yg ppuannya mcm x bermaya, yg lakinya mcm gemuk gila, to the conclusion, none of them are truly happy. Then dorg tertanya2 la kt masing2, "Why does this happen? I mean, we love each other, we have so much similarity." Then lps crk2 jwpn utk soalan tu, rupanya dorg terlalu byk similarity, smpai xde bnda yg negative utk dorg perfect kan each other. Kira cam magnet, tp dorg the opposite of magnet. HAHA..make sense ke? And the love they have together somehow berkurangan dibawak dek masa. eceh... Oh yg kwn dorg nmpk dorg ksing tu adlh goodbye kiss.haha...and Robin & Barney said that they think of this break up as not the break up between two lover, bcuz that will make it weird when they see each other again as frens, so they take it as friends who come together again (after the break as couple).
Aku tgk cerita Ugly Betty plak. Tp tgk part ujung2 je. Hampir semua character dia perlu say goodbye to their partner, to their friend, to their stuff. Part penghabisan, biasanya Betty akan berckp as narator utk bg advice/kata2 hikmah. Kali ni, betty kna bg bf dia pg ke Africa utk tlg org slma 6 bulan so means dat they hve to break up 4 awhile bcuz with no communication. Yg satu lg character ni, Ppuan ni kcewa sbb laki sorg ni menipu n amik duit yg ada n menghilangkan diri pdhl sptutnya kawin. So betty sbgai editor magazine, dia tulis artikel ni:
"There's always something about goodbyes. No matter if we did for the greater good or for someone's good, it always hurt. But no matter how many times it happens, we always have to keep moving on, start a new life, because it will always be coming back. The trick is just to find out when is it the time to let go. Because then only we can start our new beginning."
I heard this song. And I will post the lyric. It's from Hannah Montana (I know...pffffttt) but that doesn't matter cuz the lyric is perfect for my situation.
Well, from above, you know now what I've been through. I'm just getting through this on my own. Don't think this is easy for me. All of this prove that I am trying to look for advice, even from TV series. haha..well then, I'll just cater my feelings myself. :)